(hazel from ct)
This is commical what I am about to say and the name of this site. I own a house which my boyfriend has lived with me for 2 years. My bf's brother(kS) and his wife(La) and 2 kids are staying with us since Christmas.I needed help paying the mortage and they needed a nice place 2 live. KS quite his job after 2 weeks of living here, and only paid me rent for 2 months since feb.he sits on his ass all day and wont find a job. his wife left him because he wont grow up and work 2 feed his kids.I didn't kick them out because where the hell r the kids going to sleep? I am nice so i let them stay (until 2morrow) The kids ruined my housed, destroyed and broke ALOT of my things including a new laptop! today i saw 1 kid, banging the wall with a sharp object and making holes in it right in front of his father(ks) who just sat there watching tv.So for the first I stuck up for myself and yelled KS 2 start watching his kid and stop him. He started yelling at me and called me a bitch and other nasty things. why? because he said "women should not yell at men and just shut up and be pretty." I said, "Well,I must be a pretty nice bitch 4 letting u stay in my home for 6 months without a dime and feeding your ass!" At first my bf got upset and told ks(his brother off)and now 3 hours later, they r best friends again. TO all the men- What would you do if someone called your gf a bitch,and she didn't deserve it?" For freak sake i gave him/wife and his kids a home free for 6 months, cleaned up their shit everyday, now i can't pay my bills. and he has the nerve to call me a bitch 2 my face and yell at me saying I did nothing for him and he doesn't owe me a thing! Iam so pissed and shaken up that the man I have supported and put a roof over his kids heads can just shit on me like that and carry on like nothing happened.I told him he has to leave in the next couple days because iam not going to help some1 who disrespects me(in my own house)and sits on his ass all day while i pay all the bills. i feel stupid for letting them stay here for this long, but like I said I did it 4 the kids and because he is my bf's brother. Well, screw him! Iam done with the no good leech and scumbag. I wasn't a bitch then, but I'll show him what a bitch I can be! My bf and ks r now drinking beer and chatting away like nothing happened. and my bf can not understand why Iam upset that he is being nice 2 him. I said for Goodness sake, grow a pair of balls and stick up 4 me!